Aug
Why Cory and Topanga Should Not Get Married in Boy Meets World
By Danielle Fishel
Introduction
As the star of the popular 90s sitcom Boy Meets World, I have had the privilege of playing the role of Topanga Lawrence. The show, which aired from 1993 to 2000, followed the life of Cory Matthews and his friends as they navigated adolescence and young adulthood. Throughout the series, Cory and Topanga‘s relationship was a central theme, and their eventual marriage was seen as a culmination of their love story. However, I believe that Cory and Topanga should not have gotten married, and in this article, I will explore some reasons why.
1. Lack of Maturity
At the end of the series, Cory and Topanga are only 23 years old. While they have been together for several years, they are still very young and lack the maturity needed to make such a significant commitment. Marriage requires a level of emotional maturity, financial stability, and a clear understanding of what it entails, which Cory and Topanga do not possess at this stage in their lives.
2. Different Career Goals
Cory and Topanga have different career goals that could potentially create tension in their relationship. Cory wants to become a lawyer, while Topanga aspires to be a psychologist. These career paths may require them to live in different cities or have conflicting schedules, which could put a strain on their marriage. Furthermore, their differing career goals may lead to disagreements about their future and the direction of their relationship.
3. Lack of Independence
Throughout the series, Cory and Topanga have been inseparable, and their relationship has often been portrayed as overly dependent. While it is important for couples to be supportive of each other, it is equally important for individuals to maintain their independence and personal identities. Cory and Topanga‘s lack of independence could lead to an unhealthy dynamic in their marriage, where they rely too heavily on each other and fail to develop as individuals.
4. Unrealistic Expectations
The portrayal of Cory and Topanga‘s relationship in Boy Meets World often perpetuates unrealistic expectations about love and relationships. Their relationship is depicted as a fairy tale romance, where they overcome all obstacles and live happily ever after. However, real-life relationships are not always so straightforward, and couples face many challenges that are not addressed in the show. By getting married, Cory and Topanga may be setting themselves up for disappointment when their relationship does not live up to these unrealistic expectations.
5. Rushing into Marriage
Cory and Topanga decide to get married after only a few years of dating, which is a relatively short period of time. Rushing into marriage can lead to a lack of communication and understanding about each other’s needs, desires, and expectations. This can result in a marriage that is not based on a deep emotional connection, but rather on a romantic ideal or societal pressure. By taking the time to get to know each other better and work through their issues, Cory and Topanga could build a stronger foundation for their relationship.
Conclusion
In conclusion, while Cory and Topanga‘s relationship has been a central theme in Boy Meets World, I believe that they should not have gotten married. Their lack of maturity, different career goals, lack of independence, unrealistic expectations, and rushing into marriage could all create challenges in their relationship. Instead, they should have taken the time to develop as individuals, communicate their needs and desires, and build a stronger foundation for their relationship.
